Practical Ways to Start Unplugging at Home
differentiate Between Active and Passive Screen Time:
Not all screen time is created equal. “Active screen use” is more desirable as it’s cognitively and/or physically engaging. Examples: talking to a family member on FaceTime or taking an online course.
“Passive screen use” is less desirable because it is not cognitively or physically
engaging. Examples: scrolling social media or watching YouTube videos.
By making clear distinctions between the two, your family will be better equipped to strive for ideal screen-based activities when they are plugged in.
Start the conversation with your family:
Have a conversation with your family about the importance of carving out time
each day to disconnect from their screens. Define this time with each other as
being “intentionally unplugged.”
be a role model
As is true with anything else, we must be a living example of the behaviors that
we are trying to teach. It will be very difficult to convince a young person that
passive screen use is potentially harmful, if they regularly witnesses you
mindlessly scrolling on your phone. We need to be who we want them to be.
make a family plan
Make a plan to drop your screens—detailing specific screen time. Your family will be more inclined to follow a plan if it’s clearly defined and agreed upon. Some families find it helpful to create a written “Intentionally Unplugged” contract that everyone writes and signs together. The most important part is making a plan that aligns with your lifestyle and schedules. Here are some questions to consider, as you create your plan:
What are some of your favorite unplugged ways to spend time together?
What are the most important times of the day/week to be intentionally
unplugged?
How much screen use you comfortable with in your home?
What do you hope to accomplish by establishing screen time boundaries in your home?
consider an unplugging box
Consider using a designated box for devices during your
intentionally unplugged time. Having a spot where everyone places their screens when they are unplugged can be a great practice for holding accountability and establishing a family routine. Choose a central place in your home—like the kitchen counter.
check in
Check-in with your family to see how their unplugged time has felt for them. What have they noticed? How do they feel? Are you all more connected? The more you understand the benefits, the easier it will be to unplug!